I know that it is hard to get yourself motivated. It was hard for me as well. I was in your shoes with my best friend and she was all for it the first couple of months. Then she would suggest that we do something else in the time that we had set to work out. It got to the point that she would avoid my calls during the day. What I'm trying to tell you is, you have to really be at that point with yourself that this is what you want nobody else. Meet new friends at the gym if you feel the need. Set small goals for yourself weekly or daily. Once your friend makes it up in her mind that, that's what she wants, she will come alone. Still motivate her, but don't let her neg. energy affect you. She'll see results from you and it will help her.
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