I've noticed that myself. Actually, I usually don't feel hungry, so I'm trying to add some more food day by day.
Now I get that. I always hear that protein is good for building muscles, but I'm afraid that I will build more than what I'm really looking for. I want a natural look. But yeah, Tomorrow's menu will contain protein. I've actually avoided eating any protein for so long, I only eat meat once in a month and chicken twice a week, I focus on sea food especially fish. Before, I used to eat lots of meat, chicken..etc but my arms were as flabby as they are just now.
I usually do too much because I don't use weight at all. I depend on my body's weight because as I said, I'm afraid of building more muscles than I need to, I've seen my friend, she built more than she has to, so it looks really bad to show them off.
But I guess, I will try your idea of adding weight and doing less. That seems logical.
Thank You