Right ok two things on my mind that I want to put to the panel.
1) My bench press at the gym is suffering because I find it hard to keep the dumbells steady, you know they wobble arround abit, back and forth, left and right. So what excercises should I do to increase stability of my arms when I'm pressing.
I'm already doing Trusilvers alphabets, but I can't get to the end of the aphabet holding any weight at all

lol
2) How many of you train to failiure? Is it a good thing to do (a good way to speed up strength gains) or a bad thing (really just increases recovery times with no real benefit)
I also suspect that my idea of training to failiure is not quite right- I am lazy afterall!

I kinda pick a dumbell up and go OOOhh thats a bit heavy and put it down again. he he he